Posting sexual content online can feel like a great side hustle, and a quick way to earn cash... There’s no shame in wanting to try it out – but it’s good to get the full picture before jumping into anything.
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Every week, new online platforms are being rolled out, promising quick cash for sexual content!
Most platforms paint a pretty picture of creating content – but there’s no instruction manual to figure out what’s safe and what’s not. So whether you’re curious, feeling pressure, or keen to give it a go, here’s the full lowdown first….
Some Things to Think About First…
Someone Wants to Buy/Share My Images, What do I Need to Know?
Top Tips To Reduce the Risks
Some people are super confident when it comes to creating content – and if that’s you, head straight to our pre-pic check list or Top Tips to Reduce the Risks. If you’re figuring out whether it’s for you, here’s some things creators suggest thinking about first…
Quick Cash?
Posting is Permanent…
No matter how ‘safe’ a platform seems to be, there’s always the risk that content could be leaked, screenshot, shared or sold – and friends and family members might end up seeing stuff not intended for them.
Pressure?
Mental Health?
Some people enjoy the work, and say it has helped their body image, but others say it’s taken a toll on their mental health. Some have experienced abusive comments from users, felt pressure to do stuff they didn’t want, regretted, or have ongoing anxiety around who still has access to their pics/vids.
Tricky Fans
Stalkers…
While not common, there’s always the risk of some fans becoming obsessed and stalking creators. Worst case scenario is they research a creators private info (name, address, job, school etc) and share the pics with others – this is called doxing. Check out Top Tips to Reduce the Risks.
Future You?
Sex Life?
There’s lots of legal stuff to consider, so here we go…
- At what age can you create content?
NZ law states you can only share nude content if you’re 18 or older, and most legit platforms will require you to be 18yrs to share/post material. Sharing or selling sexual (nude) content of someone under the age of 18 is illegal in NZ as the content is considered ‘objectionable’. But that doesn’t mean you can’t access help if you are under 18.If you have made content and it’s been shared, it’s not your fault – help is available here: Netsafe.
- Owning your own content
Most online adult platforms have contracts explaining the relationship between the creator and the viewer. The uploaded content is usually owned by the creator – however, this doesn’t stop it being downloaded or screenshot. - Downloading and sharing content
Many sites don’t allow downloading or sharing of pics, but some allow ‘paying members’ to download. Either way, it’s still super-easy for content to be downloaded and screenshot. If this has happened, you can contact the site for support. You can also get in touch with the NZ Police or Netsafe – it can be a slow process to get videos removed, but it is possible.
- Closing accounts/removing videos
If you posted and own your content… most sites allow you to shut down and remove accounts. However, some pics may have already been downloaded or screenshot.
Some people offer cash for sexual content –
but when a creator sells their pics, it’s basically giving up ‘ownership’ of the images and there’s always some risks. So, before getting the camera out, here’s some quick things to go through…
If someone online offers you cash for pics remember to check them out first… Does the hot 30 yr-old rugby player from Rangiora actually exist – or are you talking to an 80 yr-old from Lower Hutt with the same deets?”
If someone threatens to share sexual images of you to get something in return (money, sex, more pics etc) – this is called ‘sextortion’ or ‘blackmailing’. This is not your fault and help is available.
Check out Netsafe’s page on this for help.
There’s no shortage of platforms or people offering quick bucks for sexual content and most make it look like it’s a good time all round…
…but while some platforms are safer than others, the reality is none are fully risk free – so here’s a heads up on some of the risks.
Subscription sites/apps
read more …Subscription sites/apps tend to host the creators accounts, and fans pay to follow them. These sites can generally be a bit safer, but creators say images can still be screenshot and shared, fans can get creepy, there’s big competition, and they need a lot of admin.
Porn sites
read more …Porn sites offer different ways to make money – custom videos, ad revenue, selling clips, modelling contests etc. Being public (and free), porn sites get heaps of traffic and have their own risks because creators don’t know who’s viewing or screenshotting their pics. Getting pics taken down can also be a super-slow process.
People via chats, DM, Messenger
or in-person
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There are people that offer big bucks via chats, DM, messenger or in-person for sexual content. Quick cash can be tempting, but it’s also risky, because when creators sell their pics, they lose ownership and control. Having a contract can help, but if someone changes their mind or regrets selling, they often can’t get their pics back. This type of work can also attract catfish or scammers.
Camming Platforms
read more …Camming platforms host live videos where creators get fans to pay for ‘extra’ content. Some creators say camming can be really risky because it attracts dodgy folk who can record them without consent, sell their videos, make full-on sexual requests, or even send weird sexual pics. The ‘live comments’ on these sites can also be stressful.
Catfishing is when someone pretends to be someone they’re not…
Getting a Sugar daddy or mama can be pretty tempting – especially with all the sugar babies on TikTok in their designer clothes and handbags stuffed with cash! While it looks like a fun time all round, it’s important to know the risks before signing up for anything – so here goes…
- There’s lots of sugar daddy and mama scammers – if you get a random DM from “bestdaddy111” asking for a ‘no strings attached relationship’ in exchange for free rent, it’s probably someone sketchy.
- There can be a power imbalance with some sugar daddies and mamas – and some might use their money/age/gifts to pressure you into doing sexual stuff you’re not comfortable with.
- There’s always the risk of losing control of any pics you’ve given them because they’ve paid for it.
- Some sugar daddies and mamas only want the company, but most expect sexual favours.
- Legit sugar daddies and mamas generally use verified websites and don’t randomly DM people, especially anyone under 18yrs (that’s illegal).
The main thing is understanding the risks before diving in, so there’s no regrets.
Here’s a quick pre-pic checklist…
Consent?
If someone else is buying my sexual content, have I given full, free, 100% enthusiastic consent? Do I know and understand where, when and how the content is being used?
Risks?
Am I aware there is a risk my content could be downloaded, shared, sold or screenshot? Will I be able to handle the risk of abusive, or weird messages or sexual requests from fans? Do I know there is a possibility of being stalked? Have I sussed out the buyer?
Future Me?
Am I okay with the risk of my sexual pics still being around in the future for anyone in my life to see?
Boundaries?
Have I thought through my own boundaries (what I’m comfortable doing/showing?) – and how I’ll respond to any pressure from fans to push these boundaries?
Support?
Have I talked about this with anyone? Do I have a good support network or someone to lean on if things go sideways? (Red flag…if you can’t tell anyone, you might not want to go lone wolf on this one).
Motivation?
Have I thought through why I’m creating content? It can help to talk it through with a trusted friend or professional to avoid any regrets – try Safe To Talk.
Mental Health?
Have I considered any impact this could have on my mental health and real-life sexual relationships?
Legal stuff?
Do I understand how selling content works legally and that I may no longer ‘own’ my pics once they’re online? If I’m giving someone else the rights to my pics, have I got a contract stating where and how they’re being used? And do I understand how my contract will or won’t protect me?
If you’ve done the checklist and want to create, check out our Top Tips for Reducing the Risks
Either way, some people are more vulnerable to pressure to create content – for example, if they’re struggling with money, have had unwanted sexual experiences, are houseless, intellectually impaired or their mental health isn’t strong. Making money from content can feel like a quick fix – but posting sexual stuff is permanent and can create more problems if it’s not done safely.
If you’ve done your research and are keen to start creating, but want to keep it as safe as possible, here’s 10 quick-fire top tips…
1. Do your research on the site
Secure sites generally begin with ‘https’ NOT ‘http’, have the words ‘secure’ or ‘verified’, have a privacy policy, and contact info. Try to contact the site by phone or via email – as a legit site will usually reply within a few days.
2. Do your research on the buyer
Check out their social media pages, ask for their contact info, or talk to another creator they’ve worked with. If your research shows that the buyer’s facts don’t add up, you might be being catfished – contact Netsafe.
3. Avoid showing your face
Fans can put your photo into google image search (which can link them back to your personal accounts), so keep your face, tattoos and personal items hidden in shots. If you want to show your face, change other parts of your image e.g. use a wig or sunglasses.
4. Keep your private deets private
Keep your real name, address and info about your family/friends private. Use a separate email and password to create accounts.
5. Set your boundaries
Write a list of absolute ‘no’ content you don’t want to create – and aim to stick to these boundaries.
6. Report or block dodgy users
7. Turn off your ‘location information’
Turn off any location info (on your pics, in Snapchat maps and even in your phone settings) – and if you’re using OnlyFans you can use ‘geoblock’ (top right). This limits people in certain regions from seeing your content.
8. Get a contract
Get as much formal detail (who, where, how) as possible in a contract, get a friend to check it before you sign, and ALWAYS keep a copy. Note: all reputable sites will ask for age verification – and if they don’t, that’s a red flag.
9. Get Support
Make sure you’ve got some great support including trusted friends and other creators who can support you if anything gets tricky.
10. Read the site Terms & Conditions.
Some sites have better Terms and Conditions (found at bottom of site) and better ‘model support’ than others – so do your research before you sign up and go with the safer-looking sites.
