There’s a lot of rough sex in porn and wider media now, and since porn is basically used as sex-ed these days, it makes sense to be curious or want to give stuff you’ve seen a go!

The thing is, there’s a massive difference between rough sex in porn and real-life sex…..so if you want to learn more or try something out, here’s the lowdown first…






check out these great videos of nz young people talking about porn

Know what’s going on with aggression in porn?

A bunch of young people get real about aggression in porn – and how they  personally feel about it.

Know it’s okay to have questions about porn?

Young kiwis share their own questions and experiences around porn.

Know how porn can affect sex culture?

Young kiwis share their thoughts on how porn can affect culture.

The Barbershop - Where Men Go To Heal

This TEDx by NZ Matt Brown from The Barber shop talks about the pressure guys can feel to be ‘tough’ and why – and how there’s always hope.